Tween Birthday Parties: Coming Up with Something New (and Less Expensive)

By Christine Duval

Do Tween Birthday Parties Need to Break the Bank?

Last week while attending a birthday party at one of those indoor bounce places, I watched as the kids were led from room to room bouncing on giant inflatable slides, in ball pits, boxing rings, etc. Then after they were as red in the face as they could get, they were brought to a room for pizza and cake, handed a goodie bag and sent home. In a way, it was déjà vu from another recent party we were at where the kids learned to climb rock walls and jump on trampolines wearing bungee cords. After an hour, a person in a collared shirt led them to a private room for pizza, cake and a goodie bag. A few months ago it was a similar story only at a movie theater…pizza, cake and then a movie.

While I am sure a great time was had by all, the fact is I feel like birthday parties have become increasingly formulaic (not to mention expensive). Each of the above mentioned parties probably cost somewhere between $300 and $500 for an hour and a half of entertainment. Don’t get me wrong, I’ve rented out roller rinks, done the Build-a-something parties, the big gym parties…I’ve planned them all. I’ve paid for them all.  It’s definitely convenient for the parents and exciting for the kids. But, do they really have more fun? I’ve seen bigger smiles after a karaoke sleepover or a backyard pool party than I have after parties at more “exciting” venues.

I’ve decided to start making a list of ideas for more economical, yet imaginative parties. The nice thing about tween girls is they are always open to creativity. Here are a few of the things I’ve found so far: 1) a mall scavenger hunt where all items on the list are free. I like this because it doesn’t require turning your house upside down and the girls don’t have to spend any money;  2) a manicure or spa party – either at a salon or at home; 3) a scrapbooking party where everyone brings photos and memorabilia while you supply the glue, paper, etc.; 4) A glow in the dark party. This would be great for a summer night – glow sticks/necklaces, glow in the dark straws and cups, flashlight games like capture the flag and tag.

There really are a lot of great ideas out there. Instead of dreading the next party I have to plan, I’m actually looking forward to it. My wallet is too!